10 August 2013

Cut out the negative

If you have people in your life who are extremely negative towards you and are constantly trying to knock your confidence you need to be able to slowly remove them from your life, even if they are family.

Just because someone is related to you by blood it does not mean that you have to keep them in your life. I'm not saying go over the top and cut anyone who's ever made a little comment about you out but I mean the ones who are seriously affecting your way of life and your emotions. You don't need it and you do not deserve to put up with it, why should you?

In life you soon discover the difference between true friends and fake friends; never let the fake friends influence you into doing something you're not comfortable with for their benefit. Everyone is human and deserves to be treated with respect, those who feel inferior sometimes try to control those who are superior to them to boost their own ego. They try and convince themselves that this person isn't any better than them because they have something the stronger person apparently does not. At the end of the day as long as you know who you are and you know that you are a good person it does not matter what this one person thinks of you because they are irrelevant. Sometimes it may be hard and you will need your true friends and family around you but you have to remember to stay strong. Cassidy xx